Ensure that user sees all the data before connection is closed

If user throttles receive by setting recv_mbuf_limit,
after the net interface reports connection as closed we must wait
for data to trickle through before disposing of it.
There can still b data in the buffers (e.g. SSL).

CL: mg: Ensure that user sees all the data before connection is closed

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